There are so many things I want to say sometimes and others their is nothing. But is it best to leave things unsaid or to say everything?
This is something that crosses my mind a lot. I always take pride in being honest and to always speak my mind. However, I’m starting to realise that saying isn’t all nor the best thing.
The text to an ex saying you miss them or telling a family member how heart broken you are by them.
I do think it’s always good to stay honest and to be true to your feelings but sometimes that doesn’t solve things or make them better. Sometimes they are words said in anger or words that are said with the best intentions. But the people who they are said to; they may not benefit from them the way you hope!
This has been a hard lesson for me to learn.
Now, I write those words that I want to say but don’t send them or say them. It sometimes seems like I’m restraining them! but instead I’m writing them to let them go. Not just for me but for the ease of problematic situations.
My conclusion is write; write what you want to say and wait… wait to see if they are words best said for all or best kept as your own grief?
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